patch-up!

my phone was ringing.i went to pick it up.it was 1 of my best friend,she was studying in pune now and was back for her vacations.2 days after she was back,she and her bf had some tiff and had 'officially' broken up.and thus my friend's broken heart and endless tears for weeks.we met everyday,i tried all means of entertainment but her tears just wouldn't stop and i knew they wouldn't for a long time.i knew exactly how she felt and so was with her.i picked up the phone quickly,expecting a tearful girl,crying her feelings out.
"hey radz!guess what?we patched up!" came the voice on the other side.for a moment i didn't know what to think and then suddenly i was very happy!when we kept the phone.i was smiling..but there was some weird feeling going on in my head that just wouldn't go..finally i decided that fine,let's see what this weird feeling is all about!
i realised that when i first heard the words 'patch up',my mind voice snorted!i'v never in my life believed in this word...cause i dont think it possible!!how can 2 people who have been together once,made promises,loved each other and then later on fought,broken all promises,plainly hurt-be back together?the answer by every1-cause they love each other..why else??i mean its cool they love each other..but have they forgotten the time when that person left them alone..crying..when you needed them the most....how can anyone forgive after going through sucha traumatisin phase?i wont eva want to be back with a person once ditched!!people get in relationships so that even if the rest of the world turns their back,they have someone to fall back on and support them,someone who understands,someone who loves you no matter how mad you are at them,some1 who'l call you outta his busy schedule just to say he loves you...i know reading this you might think i've an unreal rosy perception of love...but thats how i really am..i've always had fairytale fantasies...n fortunately i've been living in a fairytale!!lol!
i had seen my friend literally suffer for days...crying,weeping,getting unwell,blaming herself,almost begging her guy....did she really want to live with this guy?n if this guy really had so many issues with himself n her,why is he patching up?why not let her cry like shes been doing for almost a month now?why did he care to come back?strange stuff....a break off for me is mutual understanding...both agree to it in some way...it is heart break too but in a less painful way...cause you have reasons and you undrstand...that both people should be nothing but friends and not even that if its not comfortable...
the phone rang into my thoughts..it was my friend again...i picked it up thinking "what now?"..her voice came over the phone,filled with joy,"you know what radz?it is fine now..we talked it all over,about the days that passed and he's really sorry and im too..but now things are gonna be kewl..you know what he said?he said that..."and her voice just went on and on with genuine happiness...as if she'd never experienced all the sorrow just 24 hours before...as she talked, a smile came on my face...i thought all of this was really worth it to see her so happy...all it took was a patch-up!maybe its not that bad a thing!!maybe it is a prerequisite for relationshipz! :)